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Captain Cook Highway
Thomatis Creek
Ron Maunsell Bridge

page updated to Sunday 17th November 2013

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"Message in a [wine] Bottle"

from Louise Ottewell

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messages and four photos below

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Monday 7th October 2013

Facebook Post by Louise on Tanya's Page

Tuesday 8th October 2013

Message from Geoff and Sharon to Louise

Hi Louise
Sharon and I were driving home late today and, as we always do, slowed down as we passed 'Her Bike' to say hello
We spotted something different and stopped
It was still light enough to take a photo which is with this message
We are sure this is what you referred to in both your private message to Sharon and the Facebook post you made yesterday (above)
It is so very, very nice and we stood there, hugged, and cried a tear or two
We are both so overwhelmed by the love shown to Tanya and the support and caring given to us
This is beautiful !!
I was starting to get dark, and we did not interfer with the 'Special Bottle' as Sharon is going to stop again around 5.30pm tomorrow
We noticed that there is a note inside the 'Bottle' ... we do not want to intrude, but do you mind if we read this ??
Also, is it okay if we post this on Tanya's Facebook Page ??
I hope you can appreciate just how we feel about this ... it is a gesture of love for "Our Girl" that we will never forget

Reply from Louise

I am so glad you saw Tanya's "Message in a (wine) Bottle" gift
I gave it to her this morning on my way to work, and no doubt those driving by wondered why a girl was walking along the highway with a bottle of wine at 7.00am on a Tuesday morning !!
I picked a nice wine with a nice big letter 'T' in the name and drank it at the weekend then yesterday, I decorated it for her
Hopefully the traffic dirt hasn't stuck to it too much
I would love it if you read the note and shared the photo on Facebook ... part of me hopes that she is still logging on to her page and seeing what we have all been up to
Your daughter continues to live on in all those whom she touched during her life ... that will never change

Reply from Geoff and Sharon

Dear Louise ... your words are so very nice ... Thank You
Tanya's little red "Tina Barina" is here with us
We did not want it sold and then to see it being driven around by someone else
There are underground carparks here at our complex and it stays there under a car cover
Every now and again I take it for a drive to keep the battery charged
It needs a drive now so here is what we are going to do
Sharon and I talked about your beautiful 'Message in a Bottle'
We decided we would like to be together when we open it and read your note
So I am going to take "Tina" and meet Sharon at "The Bike" tonight at around 5.15pm
Also, the photos taken last night with her phone/camera are not very good and I want to take more with our main camera
Some nice shots for both her Memorial Albumn and Facebook Page ... which she does check, I bet !!
I'm pretty sure that 'The Girl' will be sitting on the guardrail watching us and all this activity !!
Will write again soon ... Geoff

Wednesday 9th October 2013

Follow up note from Geoff and Sharon

We got the "Bottle" and took it a way off from the busy road and we sat there and read the words as you 'spoke' to Tanya Mary
We cried a bit and hugged a lot, and it was so wonderful of you to do this
We put everything back and said "see ya" to The Girl ... was sad but also nice
I took lots of photos and I'll get them organised and put up over the next day or two
PS - did you really drink that whole bottle yourself ??

Reply from Louise

I am glad you had time to read the bottle message
I was thinking of you when I was driving home
Tanya and I would meet up at basketball or in town and have wine together and chats
I always admired her sunny nature and positivity
She had so much time for everyone, even people she had met ten minutes ago
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree
As for drinking all that wine by myself, of course I didn't ... Tanya shared it with me !!
I hope "Tina" had a nice trip out too ... I totally understand why you couldn't part with Tanya's car ... she is part of 'Your Girl' !!

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"Pull string to read"

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Tropical and citrus fruits along with attractive herbaceous/varietal
characters on the nose - the palate is generous and fruit driven with
classical Marlborough acidity giving a fresh, clean palate and passionfruit
finish with a hint of lime - the palate is well proportioned with refreshing
tropical flavors that linger on the seductive finish

Distinctly Marlborough from the nose to the herbaceous tropical palate
of guava and ripe melon characters - it's fresh and zingy with a
splash of lemon tang on the palate hitting the mark - good sustaining acid

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Thursday 10th October 2013

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Thursday 10th October 2013 ... Gary Jackson
It's odd reading that post about 'The Bottle'
I must admit
I say hello every time I drive past the site
And I also found that during the Ironman,
as I passed the site in both directions,
it gave me motivation

Note from Sharon
Thanks, Gary
I talk to Tanya every day but that is probably
not surprising given I am her Mother !!
I find it not odd but amazing that many people
have told me that they always say 'hi'
when they drive past as well
It is so nice for us to hear these little snippets
A couple of people told us that seeing the bike
and thinking of Tanya gave them
an extra push during the Ironman too
Especially on the way back !!
It is comforting to know these things

Note from Gary
Especially on the way back

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Sunday 27th October 2013

A visit from Trish and Olivia Nicholls

!! New Flowers for Tanya !!

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CLICK HERE

for all the details including

Facebook Comments and Photos

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Tuesday 5th November 2013........................Saturday 9th November 2013

A visit from Karen, Geoff and Zoe Turner

and Brett and Kahlia and Meagan Fanning

!! New Flowers for Tanya !!

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CLICK HERE

for all the details including

lots and lots of Photos

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Sunday 17th November 2013

A visit from Sharon

"The Kindness of Strangers"

Today I drove out to "Tanya’s Ghost Bike" site

As you would have seen above, one of her friends, Karen Turner, had left a bougainvillea there and I wanted to check on it and water it because it has been very hot here this last week

When I arrived I noticed the whole area had been mowed up to and past where the bike is situated
I also noticed the bougainvillea looked pretty good and had been watered ... and a bottle of water had been left by the bike too

As I was shovelling a bit of dirt around the pot to try to hold the water in, a man called out to me
I walked over and he introduced himself as Keith and said he lives on the cane farm behind where the bike is
He had been watering the plant because it had been looking a little sad
He had mowed the area and would continue to do so and also said he would be happy to keep an eye on the plant as well

There are four photos below which show the care and consideration that Keith has been giving to Tanya Mary ... I was so touched

He was so kind
He asked some questions about Tanya ... he had been away at the time of the incident

I mentioned to him that I wasn’t sure if the Council would like the bougainvillea near the guard rail
He said if we were asked to shift it we could plant it on the bank nearby wherever we liked

When initially driving in, I saw a 'Mangos For Sale' sign and thought I would go in and get a couple
I mentioned that to him and told me to come and get some
His wife was there with their grandchildren and after one little fellow had shown me the baby chickens and ducks and dogs, he picked out some mangos for me
The lady wouldn’t let me pay for them and kept adding to my bag !!

She was lovely too ... and said they have been going and having a chat with Tanya while they water the plant
I showed her some photos on my phone and had a bit of a cry

Another example of the kindness of strangers to us at this most terrible, terrible time

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